Undoubtedly sharing is an essential skill for the social, cognitive, and emotional development of a child. But naturally, preschoolers don’t understand the idea of sharing. Generally, children comprehend the concept of sharing at the age of three. Although the most basic sharing skills are developed in the preschool years, the positive effects on communication and socialization can extend long into the future. Are you still confused about how to teach your kid sharing? Check here for the basic tips.
Advantages of learning and practicing sharing for children
Nancy Bruski, author of The Insightful Teacher says that sharing may be very tough for young children. But we all know that children must learn to share to make and keep friends. Besides, learning and sharing are essential for children to play cooperatively, take turns, negotiate and cope with disappointment. Moreover, it is sharing which teaches children about agreement and civility.
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Sharing is one of the supreme parts of getting along with others. It becomes more important and essential when your child starts having playdates. Moreover, it is crucial when your child starts going to child care or preschool.
Young children need to learn how to cooperate in the use of classroom materials like toys, materials, ideas for play, or being first in line.
However, sharing is challenging and some children learn it slowly but it's one that all children need to understand they need to overcome in order to share.
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10 effective ways to encourage your child for practicing sharing
Children love to imitate and they imitate their parents most. If you model good sharing and turn-taking in your family, it becomes a great example for your children to follow.
Remember, children need opportunities to learn about and practice sharing. Some ways check below to encourage sharing in everyday life:
Sharing 'rules'
Talk about the difference between home and preschool using a set of classroom 'rules' that are simple and easy to understand. You can focus on features of sharing such as asking for things, taking turns, and helping each other. Let your children know that sharing is an important part of being in an environment with peers.
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Discussing the value of sharing
Your child may be too young to understand the value of sharing. What you can do is highlighting the good points of sharing. Tell your child that if he or she shares their toys with friends, everyone gets to have fun. If you highlight good sharing in others, your child is more likely to follow their example. You can encourage your kid to read books or watch videos regarding the good parts of sharing.
Modeling
Put a model example pointing out good sharing in others. You can say something like- ‘ your friend was sharing his toys really well. He likes to share all his toys and lovely things with his friends. This will inspire your kid also to share his things with others.
